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Why do good-looking men date homely women?

12.06.2025 00:56

Why do good-looking men date homely women?

But he is not. Instead, he is with a woman who is physically less attractive than he is.

The hot guy feels a chemistry and an attraction with the homely girl that he does not feel with the Supermodel. There is alot more to happiness in a relationship then looks.

When you are attracted to someone mentally, emotionally, spiritually, intelllectually, then the physical comes.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

When you see a good looking, handsome hot man with a homely/ugly/average woman, it just proves that the hot guy can’t have any woman he wants.

The reason has to do with chemistry.

If he did , he would be with a Supermodel, a Woman who is just as good looking as he is.

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